Saturday, December 12, 2009

Congratulations Messages For Marraige Do You Always Have To Say Congratulations On A Pregnancy?

Do you always have to say congratulations on a pregnancy? - congratulations messages for marraige

I noticed a trend that people always say: "Congratulations" when someone (even a random number Strangers on a message board) when you could be pregnant.

I understand that this is generally the polite thing to say.
However, I have noticed that people always say (or equivalent), if you can not say whther pregnancy is desired or not.

I wonder how it is more appropriate to answer the questions someone when you do not know if the pregnancy is desired, or if you prefer to cancel?
It is a truism necessary if we do not know, do you need?

20 comments:

waggy said...

It depends entirely on context - if someone said they were raped, and if they believe that they are pregnant, congratulations would be inappropriate. When someone tells her partner and they have tried for years, and now she is pregnant, is congratulated appropriate.
People are very tedious presumption that pregnancy itself is always a good thing. For me is about context. So a question like: "I think you may be pregnant - how can I know?" Inappropite quite simply congratulating the fact of the pregnancy might be there.

jules vane said...

I usually say "better than me!"

gaz said...

and my partner has discovered that his wife was pregnant, the other day I said, bad luck, that we have gone and drunk

embroidery fan said...

I would say that what is in your heart. If you believe that the pregnancy is good, you can always say "best wishes".
I will not, in general, if you are planning an abortion!

berry said...

Error on the bright side. In any case, if unwanted abortion.

berry said...

Error on the bright side. In any case, if unwanted abortion.

BikerChi... said...

I wonder if they are happy, then decide whether they allowed or not.

hiduuuuu... said...

and if the person will be encouraged, so I think congratulations, but I mean, if the person does not expect to get pregnant, like 16 or so on .. or any age for reasons of face, I do not think it would be appropriate. So I would say that the situation would be much more reassuring.

hiduuuuu... said...

and if the person will be encouraged, so I think congratulations, but I mean, if the person does not expect to get pregnant, like 16 or so on .. or any age for reasons of face, I do not think it would be appropriate. So I would say that the situation would be much more reassuring.

gillm said...

depends on how it was written, can Q - In general, to determine whether a woman is happy or not what she says - do no harm anyway congratulations

luisamap... said...

The label is reasonable to assume it was planned and is a joy.

Is Happy "is also a big word at hand, in a moment of shock, do not throw out" Oh my God, really? Who is the father? "

mel said...

Under the assumption that the pregnancy is desired, such as abortions occur early, around 5 weeks, if no clear signal.

Sometimes pregnancy is difficult.

smooth said...

I believe that words alone without a partner (pitch)

Sam-I-Am said...

I think if someone say discovers that someone is pregnant, that I am personally respond to the situation. O 'congratulations', maybe just an informal response, and I think they should say.They not really think that the person is pregnant is really happy or not.

I do not know about message boards know this, but personally I think it is quite clear in general whether the pregnancy is wanted or not, judging by the way he delivered the message.

earthang... said...

People tend to say: "Congratulations" for those who are pregnant, because only the word of welcome to a new world, a world of motherhood ... This word is just one way, you feel the situation is at the moment and gives a positive feeling, like "Congratulations! Hey, havin Lil Angel soon" .. such things. Abortion is a sin ..

I Preggy the age of seventeen .. I did not abort my baby. He knew that everything I do is follow it, if I am with my greatest .. Pregnant We thank the Lord for the blessing and congratulate me cuz ia able to use all studies to overcome during this period.

luddite said...

It is best to be neutral. It is not always welcome.
I find it interesting that we congratulate expected that a couple who announced their engagement and marriage, as they had won a prize or something. Traditionally used only for happiness, today we welcome this great achievement.

Desert Sienna said...

It's nice.

jenny said...

Well, I'm infertile, so if I'm pregnant, then congratulations a miracle would be the word lol, andyway and the others would shoot out like bullets, so I thought, why not congratulate him, but if your partner, then yes, I would say congratulations! not foreign

Sgt Little Keefe said...

Why not ask whether it good or not? If so, offer your congratulations, if n ot to say that I am so sad.

apple_ka... said...

Good question. In today's world is pregnant is a positive thing, and so the immediate answer, if you find that someone pregnant, is congratulated ". We say this because I was always assumed that the pregnancy "wanted." Many people do not always know think the opposite and may believe that was the pregnancy or not.

In any case, a pregnancy is usually a happy moment and a cause for celebration. Even if you do not want the pregnancy has to be stopped before it starts to show ". Once you show the mother usually gives the signal that the pregnancy was "wanted" and tehrefore "congrautlations" start is an appropriate response

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